Tips for Meeting Someone Organically Ask your friends to set you up with people they know. Go to coffee shops and bars alone. Take classes, join clubs, and volunteer in your community. Attend meet-ups, singles nights, and speed-dating events.

You'll have a better chance of meeting someone if you're out and about. If you're old enough, you could try going to a bar or a club. If that isn't really your scene, hit up a coffee shop or a bookstore nearby. You could also try joining a book club or a hobby club to meet people interested in the same things as you.